So. About those changes.
This isn’t going to be one of those sweet, loving, adorable personal posts where I tell you how great my life is and all that.
Today, I want to talk to you about blogging burnout.
I’m familiar with burnout from social work. It’s when you’re just tired and exhausted and cynical and everything else. You can’t do any of the work that you need to do despite needing to do it. If you want to know more about the signs, click here.
And, I’m burning out. I’m just running out of steam. This isn’t just with blogging, but just in general. However, it’s really showing up here. I’ve already stepped back from doing Instagram posts every day to help ward off against this.
Since Chantel left, it’s been very hard on me. I’m feeling very discouraged and get so damn stressed about making sure I have posts set-up and am reading enough books and checking the blog a few times a day. And, what I get back from blogging isn’t justifying the stress.
I don’t feel like I’ve been putting my all into reviews because I’m reading and reading and reading to try to make enough content to last me a month, then I’m so busy that I can’t write reviews right away. And so I can’t write quality reviews that I want to.
Don’t get me wrong, I fucking love all of your likes and comments. I love your posts. I love it all. But, I’m just so damn stressed and am barely able to function. Last week, I had a breakdown on Tuesday because I was so stressed. Chantel and I talked about this, too, because I value her input in the blog even if she’s no longer an active presence.
That means I’ve made a decision about the blog that did not come lightly. I’ve been thinking about this for a very long time, going between various ideas that included quitting altogether or bringing in another blogger to create content. I don’t want my mental health to suffer. I’m very much a go-getter so I don’t like doing this, but I know that I have to.
I’ve come to this conclusion.
I will not be posting daily anymore.
My goal is to post somewhere between 3-5 times a week.
What will the blog schedule look like?
Well, it’s going to look something like this.
- Top Ten Tuesday every week
- A tag that I’ve been tagged in bimonthly on Thursdays
- Fridays: alternate between First Lines Friday and Down the TBR Hole
- Mondays, Wednesdays, Saturdays, or Sundays will feature a book review.
And, that’s basically it.
I don’t really like that I’m dropping back because I’ve loved posting daily for the past months. However, as Chantel is currently on an indefinite hiatus and I’m in graduate school, that’s not feasible. Making this decision, I already feel so much lighter. I don’t feel nearly as stressed and I’ve been able to enjoy reading more.
These changes are going to be effective immediately.
Despite these changes, I’m going to be around each and every day to like your posts. I’m hoping that this will translate to me having more time to comment on your posts as well.
Thank you all for following us. I know that we are in awe at how many of you there are. And that goes for whether you’ve been here from the start or recently found us. Thank you all so much. I know my life would be less rich if I hadn’t gotten into this community.
Your health and happiness come first! 3-5 posts is still a lot of blogging–there will be plenty to enjoy. 🙂
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Thank you! ❤ I'm liking that I can be more selective about what reviews I post on here since I don't have to completely fill up with content. So, thank you! When I finally made the decision, I felt a lot better.
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Good for you, you can’t do anything if you dont take car of your happiness first! 3 posts is my goal each week, and I still think it’s too much sometimes! I’m glad you’re not quitting completely 😁
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Thank you so much! ❤️ I considered it, but I wouldn’t be interacting with all of you! And I love it. So, I’ll be here to stay for a while yet!
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Take care of your health. Blogging should be fun and so Aldo reading… Reviews can be just a few lines, a paragraph.. So take it easy… Get back to having fun
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I put those short reviews on my Goodreads, actually! I’m definitely planning on taking it easy.
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Health comes first. 🙂 There are times when I too felt that I wasn’t posting enough content on my blog, but it’s fine to post once or twice in a week. Those who love to read your posts will always be there.
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Thank you! ❤️ I’m learning how to limit myself and I appreciate all your support!
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I think it’s important and good that you decided to do what feels right for you. I really enjoy your posts but I know how stressed you can get when you have to keep a blog running. 🙂 I only manage two pots a week and it’s already not easy so you have all my respect for posting daily for so long. ❤ Your health and you come first and I'm sure everyone will understand.
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It was a hard decision. Definitely talked about it with Chantel. And two posts a week is great! Thank you so much, Virginia! ❤️
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I think the most important thing about blogging is having fun, so do what you need to do so that this doesn’t feel like a job for you. 3-5 posts a week is still amazing, especially since you’re in grad school! ❤
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I totally agree. It’s not good when I start dreading things. I look forward to getting back to posting things I really enjoy! Thanks for all of your support, Sara! ❤️
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No need to post every day! I took a break at the start of March and have only been able to post once for a blog tour I committed to previously, so I understand where you’re coming from. What you’re cutting back to was more of my schedule for the Jan/Feb and I still didn’t have the time I wanted to read so I don’t know how you did daily! I hope for the best for your MH and grad school, and take care of YOU first!!
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That’s what I’m starting to learn. That it’s okay to not do it all. I’m planning on taking care of myself and posting things I really want to and I’m proud of. Thank you so much! ❤️
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Hey, 3-5 blog posts a week is no joke! I’ve been trying to get blog post up every other day and have so many things I want to do, but yesterday I decided preemptively to scale back before I get burned out. I’m glad you made this blog post because I think it’s good we all get reminders that we’re all human and can only do so much without feeling drained.
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Thank you so much, Lori! ❤️ I agree that many bloggers don’t talk about burnout. It’s great that you realized that in yourself!
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I’m sorry you’re experiencing burnout! It’s definitely a real risk. I think a lot of us feel the pressure the post regularly, to bloghop, to catch up with our favourite bloggers’ posts… And, sometimes, that just doesn’t happen. Like, this month, I’ve been busy with other stuff… I haven’t been able to read as much or do as much on the blog. And I definitely feel bad about that… I think taking a step back and setting yourself up in a more manageable way is fantastic!!
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I’m sorry you’re experiencing it as well! It’s not a fun thing at all. I know I’ve definitely felt pressure to keep up, but I want to be more meaningful from now on. I hope that next month is a better one for the both of us!
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Definitely 🙂
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Agreed! I have been feeling the same lately.
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It’s such a rough feeling, isn’t it? I hate feeling burntout, especially with something that I honestly enjoy doing.
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Same here! It’s good to have you back
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Thank you! I’m glad to be here, and to be taking a step back.
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Same here
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Always take care of yourself first. I am having alot of health issues myself and I just started my blog. I do what I can, when I can and I hope that everyone understands, I am doing it for fun, if I don’t enjoy it, then my followers won’t either. Just smile and take it one day at a time! 🙂
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Exactly! I think most of us start blogging because we want to. Then, we get caught up in doing things for other people rather than remembering why we did this in the first place. It’s for us. And, I hope that you’re okay and take care of yourself, too!
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Thank you, I am trying to take care of me and enjoy my books and blog at the same time, I will be following you! 🙂
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And that’s a hard thing to balance sometimes! Thank you so much for the follow! ❤️
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Your mental health should always come first – it’s amazing that you’re blogging at all while in graduate school! I promise we would still show up even if you posted once a week or even less. Be kind to yourself X
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Well, thank you! Luckily, I’m done with my first year so I’m back to posting basically every day, but it’s always nice to hear that.
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